WEDDING GUEST LIST
Your spreadsheet can’t tell you who to cut.
You and your partner rate every guest privately. The algorithm draws the line at your seat count. Nobody has to say it out loud.
- #118Grandma Rosegrade A
- #119Aunt Lindagrade A
- #120Uncle Davegrade B
- VENUE CAPACITY · 120
- #121Brad from the group chat, doesn’t fitgrade D
+ 19 more below the line · 20 don’t fit
Free to rate ·. $9.99 once to reveal the cut.
TRY IT
Three guests. Three taps. Then see where the line falls.
No account. Your partner never sees your score.
GUEST 1 OF 3
Uncle Dave
Dad’s brother. Will give a toast. Nobody asked.
Awaiting your verdict…
How much do you want him there? Just yours.
Free to rate · $9.99 once to reveal your cut
WHY WE BUILT THIS
Every wedding tool helps you collect addresses. None of them help with the part that keeps you up at night: who doesn’t make the list.
So you each rate every guest in private. Neither of you sees the other’s scores until you both reveal. Then the cutoff is just math, and you stay on the same team.
TUESDAY, 11:48 PM
HOW IT WORKS
Four steps.
Zero guilt.
- 01
Import
Pull your list from The Knot, Zola, or any spreadsheet.
- 02
Rate
Together or separately, your choice. Your Personal Score stays private.
- 03
Reveal
See who made the cut and who… didn’t.
- 04
Export
Download the final list and move on with your life.
the actual list
higher average than the roommate. still out.
The line isn’t drawn on the average. It’s drawn on our score, which weighs what matters to the two of you.
UNDER THE HOOD
Not just an average. Your priorities, doing the math.
A spreadsheet averages two numbers. We don’t. Every guest gets several ratings from each of you, and our algorithm weighs them against what the two of you care about most. You supply every input, and it treats every name on the list the same way.
one guest, rated
Their college roommate
FRIEND · THEIR SIDE · CLOSENESS 4 OF 5
OUR ALGORITHM
the secret sauce
- 1
Several ratings per guest, not one.
How much they need to be there, how likely they are to come, and a Personal Score each of you keeps private.
- 2
It knows what matters to you.
Tell it how you two feel about friends and family, each side, and how close you are to people. It weighs every guest accordingly.
- 3
Seats, not names.
A plus-one takes a chair. So does every kid. The line is drawn by headcount against your venue’s capacity, not by counting rows.
- 4
Couples stay couples.
Link guests who come as a set and they make or miss the cut together.
Why not just use a spreadsheet?
You could. Here’s how that usually ends.
THE DIY SPREADSHEET
who added Brad??
- No private score. Your partner sees everything you type.
- Someone still has to make every cut by hand.
- Version chaos, broken formulas, lost tabs.
- It ends in an argument.
Sorry, Not Invited
- Ratings stay private until you both reveal.
- The algorithm makes the call, not you.
- Real-time sync, always current.
- A decision you arrived at together.
PRICING
Cheaper than one no‑show’s plate.
The average wedding guest costs $150 to $250. We cost $9.99, once. Cut one plus-one you were dreading and it’s already paid for itself.
ADMIT TWO
Rating is free. Pay only to reveal the results.
- Import & rate your real guests free
- Reveal who made the cut
- Both partners included
- Export your final guest list
A few questions before you get started.
- What if my partner and I disagree on a guest?
- That’s the whole point. You each keep a private Personal Score, and the algorithm combines everything into one ranking. Disagreements surface clearly so you can talk about just those few people, not the entire list.
- Is our guest data private?
- Yes. Your list is encrypted and visible only to you and your partner. We never sell or share it, and you can delete everything at any time.
- What’s your refund policy?
- A 30-day, no-questions-asked money-back guarantee. If it’s not for you, send us a message through the Contact page and we’ll refund you in full.
you’ve got this
Ready to make the hard calls together?
Rate your way, reveal together, and let the scores make the tough calls.
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