Each scoring category captures a different aspect of whether someone should make your guest list.
Necessity
How essential is this person to your wedding day?
5
Absolutely must be there — the day wouldn't be the same
4
Very important — you'd be disappointed if they couldn't come
3
Would love to have them but it's not critical
2
Nice to invite but wouldn't miss them
1
Only inviting out of obligation
Likelihood to Attend
What are the chances they'll actually show up?
5: Will definitely be there
4: Very likely to attend
3: 50/50 chance
2: Probably won't make it
1: Almost certainly can't attend
Relationship Closeness
How close are you to this person?
5: Inner circle — talk regularly, deeply connected
4: Good friends — see each other often
3: Friendly — occasional contact
2: Acquaintance — rarely interact
1: Distant — haven't spoken in years
Custom Categories
You can add your own categories to capture what matters to you:
"Fun factor"
"Drama potential"
"Travel distance"