Welcome! This guide walks you through everything you need to start managing your guest list together. You'll be up and running in about 5 minutes.
Create Your Couple Profile
After signing up, you'll set up your couple profile with:
- Your names — how you'd like to be referred to
- Wedding date — optional, but helpful for tracking
- Target guest count — helps the algorithm know your constraints
Import Your Guest List
You have three options for getting guests into the system:
- Import from The Knot or Zola — export your list and upload it here
- Upload a spreadsheet — use your own Excel or CSV file
- Add manually — enter guests one by one
Invite Your Partner
Head to Settings and grab your unique invite link. Send it to your partner so they can join and start rating independently.
Start Rating
Go to the Ranking page and rate each guest. Your ratings are private until you both decide to reveal them. Be honest — that's the whole point!
See the Verdict
Once you've both rated everyone, head to the Combined View to see who made the cut based on your combined scores.
💡 Tip
The algorithm is just a tool to help facilitate the conversation — you always have the final say on who gets invited.