The ranking system is the heart of Sorry, Not Invited. Here's how it helps you make those tough decisions together.
The Basic Concept
Each partner rates every guest privately. Your partner can't see your ratings, and you can't see theirs. This ensures honest, unbiased input from both of you.
Scoring Categories
For each guest, you rate them on several factors:
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Necessity
How essential is this person? Must-have vs. nice-to-have.
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Likelihood
How likely are they to actually attend?
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Relationship
How close are you to this person?
You can also add custom categories that matter to you.
The Rating Scale
Each category uses a simple 1-5 scale:
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Low
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Medium
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High
The Cutoff Line
Based on your target guest count, the system shows you where the natural cutoff falls. Guests above the line are "in," guests below are "out."
💡 Tip
Remember, you have the final say! The algorithm is just a tool to help facilitate the conversation.